Sometimes the girls get a little crazy possessive when it comes to their new lovers.
Many of us watched the comedy "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days" ("How to lose a guy for 10 days").
The main character of the film, Andy makes common mistakes most of the girls at the initial stage of relations.
His actions she is trying to prove that no matter how beautiful and clever nor was a girl, she can turn away from a guy, if this goes through a series of blunders that can deter even the most persistent of the stronger sex.
So, even if you have already won the Man, this does not mean that it is forever yours. Keep the guy is much more difficult than to achieve it.
If you want to have a long-term and strong relationship, check out the list of typical female mistakes and try to do everything to avoid them in a relationship with someone you love.
Mistakes women in relationships
1 Revelations about his turbulent past
There are certain things about the past life of which it is better not to tell your new passion.
Stories about sexual adventures and previous men best left to themselves. Try to keep your revelations after the young man did not arise bad aftertaste.
2 Complaints and whining
It is not necessary to bore the new guy endless talk about what you need to lose weight and what kind of diet is best to choose. If you have no thoughts to scare him in the early days of dating, do not annoy your constant complaining and whining.
Worried that he might escape from you early in the relationship? Then it is not necessary to burden him with women's issues. Believe me, it can scare anyone, even a man with a strong exposure.
Starting a new relationship, he is not ready to deal with whining and waiting for lightness and positivity.
3 Changing to his bachelorhood "lair"
Even if your relationship has reached a new level, and you spend most of the time in his apartment, it does not mean that you can bring a box or two with different tricks to add a "much-needed" feminine touches in the interior.
So-called "mimishnye 'stuff, in the form of plush toys, pink blankets and pillows in the shape of hearts with the words" I love you ", it's not what a man wants to return home from work.
Most likely, the effect is the opposite to your expectations. Believe me, a man will scare a woman's desire "to occupy" his territory in this way.
4 Interrupt stag
Stag means that the party must be present only boys. That is, if your young man preparing to spend time with my friends, most of all, he does not want you to see what they are doing.
For most men, bachelor party consists of poker, beer, pizza, football, cigars and, of course, from a purely male conversations. Needless to say, women invade without an invitation is not recommended.
If you suddenly was coming to this temporarily restricted to the territory of the weaker sex, your young person may feel squeezed. So, you put it in an awkward position in front of his friends.
It may also accept such an invasion, as the lack of trust on your part.
5 You get to watch the tear melodrama
If you are enthusiastic about lacrimal melodramas and can ten times revise favorite scenes from "Intuition" and that such a "soap", this does not mean that your new boyfriend is a movie for everyone.
Do not make him sit with you in the evenings and, in tears, to empathize with the main characters of women's melodramas. Believe me, that will save them from being forced to voluntarily display your favorite movies, you'll earn yourself extra points.
6 Buy clothes for him, which is combined with your
For whatever reason, some girls feel the need to pick up a guy clothes, which will be combined with their dresses or sweaters, remains a mystery.
Therefore, if you belong to the category of women sincerely believe that matching outfits are cute, think again, there will please your boyfriend this idea.
7 Tears after physical intimacy
Yes, sometimes we tend to show their emotions. However, your bedroom is not the right place for this.
It is understood that during lovemaking, you have to be hot and passionate, and not whining and sobbing. Do not defeat the special atmosphere of the bedroom with tears of any kind.
8 "occupation" of his cabinet feminine intimate hygiene
The fact that you place your tampons and other personal care products in his locker, in fact, there is nothing criminal. However, before the wedding is better to refrain from such actions.
Best of all, if you're not married, put the intimate female things in her purse. The same prohibition applies to the toothbrush.
It is not necessary to keep it ahead of time, along with his toothbrush in the bathroom. Such actions can be interpreted them as the beginning of the control of its territory. And it can scare a man who, as a rule, very much values his freedom.
9 ultimatums in the early stages
Ultimatums at an early stage of relations - not exactly a good idea. Still very early to talk about a joint future together. Allow it to breathe freely.
No need to get the one that constantly makes demands and sets its own terms. Phrases such as "I will not sleep with you, if you can not say that I'm the only" or "if you do not do this, I will not do it", it is necessary to withdraw from everyday use.
Pushing her new boyfriend ultimatums at an early stage of relations, you can alienate him from me.
Relationships: Women's mistakes
10 calls his mom
Even if you're really close with her boyfriend, and ready for the next step in a relationship, without his consent, some things still do not recommended.
Ringing without the knowledge of your guy his mom, if not necessary, is unacceptable. Besides the fact that you lose his confidence, he may think that you are crazy.
Give up the idea of doing everything behind his young man, and even more so when it comes to communicating with his family. Not only what the man might like.
11 Family Therapy
Family therapy can be very useful and have a positive effect on the later stages of relationships. But if your relationship just something some day a couple of months, and you have to resort to the help of family psychologist, this is a serious reason to think.
If from the very beginning that something goes wrong, most likely, it makes sense to end this relationship and move on.
The three main words
12 The word "LOVE"
The word "love" is not what is easy and just costs raskidyvatsya at the initial stage of your relationship. Depreciation of its value can move both on two giant steps back.
The three main words "I love you" should sound when you realize that your feelings are mutual. Give him the opportunity to say the first of these important words. So it will be safer for you.
The diminutive 13 - affectionate nickname
To avoid awkward moments in a relationship do not rush to give your guy a diminutive nickname.
Even if your young person against such nicknames, be careful where and when to use them, so for others it did not look ridiculous and absurd. "Bunny" or "bear" it can only be alone with you.
Most likely, he will not be happy when his friends would jokingly call him this nickname.
14 Breaking his account on the social network
Trying to break the account is not a good idea, if you ever wanted to see your boyfriend.
It's pretty dishonest and cowardly way to control a young man. And believe me, as soon as the hype will reveal this kind of action to put you off from it by a great distance. And is not it, and you will find yourself in the role of the one who can not be trusted.
15 Constant calls him on his mobile
Please do not keep ringing her boyfriend every five minutes and do not leave annoying messages every time he can not answer your call. Perhaps just at this moment he is busy, and your endless calls will only exasperate him.
16 Talk to him about future children
Remember the scene from the movie "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days", when Andy brought his new album to the guy with the imaginary future children. Of course, the reaction of her young man was, to put it mildly, is not unambiguous.
If you're on the third week of relations vtoruyu- send new guy Pictures cradles and prams with the question "cute, which option is best suitable for our future baby?" Be prepared for the fact that such pressure might scare your lover.
17 Dress properly
Women's clothing for a home can be comfortable and beautiful at the same time. It is not necessary to scare the new guy faded T-shirts or pants with stretched knees. Try to look stunning, not only in the cinema, discotheques or at dinner in a restaurant, but also at home.
18 Discussion of your personal life with friends
Nobody forbids you to chat with friends, even when your life has a new man. However, be careful with the topics for discussion. Some things are best left just between the two of you.
Girlfriends do not necessarily know the details of your intimate personal life. Believe me, if it comes to a young man, he will not like what you are discussing the most delicate moments of your relationship.
19 Jealousy everything and everyone
Jealousy - a sign of true love. Maybe so, but only if this jealousy fair and adequate.
However, pathological jealousy is unhealthy is a likely disease. If you check it every evening mail, phone, and come to work for him to ascertain whether he's there, maybe you should see a doctor.
If you are jealous of the guy to his friends, mother, co-workers, it is worth considering whether to continue at such a pace. So you run the risk of losing a lover.
Believe me, girl -paranoik useless. Most likely, your boyfriend will frighten this obsession.
20 Eternal tantrums
This is perhaps one of the most important tips. It is not necessary to roll up his tantrums with or without. Not folded his socks, not hung to dry towel, you have not bought a handbag of your dream? It's not a reason to make his brain.
Believe me, your constant tantrums can tire anyone, and in the end, he will run away from you to that which will give him peace and comfort.
Many of us watched the comedy "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days" ("How to lose a guy for 10 days").
The main character of the film, Andy makes common mistakes most of the girls at the initial stage of relations.
His actions she is trying to prove that no matter how beautiful and clever nor was a girl, she can turn away from a guy, if this goes through a series of blunders that can deter even the most persistent of the stronger sex.
So, even if you have already won the Man, this does not mean that it is forever yours. Keep the guy is much more difficult than to achieve it.
If you want to have a long-term and strong relationship, check out the list of typical female mistakes and try to do everything to avoid them in a relationship with someone you love.
Mistakes women in relationships
1 Revelations about his turbulent past
There are certain things about the past life of which it is better not to tell your new passion.
Stories about sexual adventures and previous men best left to themselves. Try to keep your revelations after the young man did not arise bad aftertaste.
2 Complaints and whining
It is not necessary to bore the new guy endless talk about what you need to lose weight and what kind of diet is best to choose. If you have no thoughts to scare him in the early days of dating, do not annoy your constant complaining and whining.
Worried that he might escape from you early in the relationship? Then it is not necessary to burden him with women's issues. Believe me, it can scare anyone, even a man with a strong exposure.
Starting a new relationship, he is not ready to deal with whining and waiting for lightness and positivity.
3 Changing to his bachelorhood "lair"
Even if your relationship has reached a new level, and you spend most of the time in his apartment, it does not mean that you can bring a box or two with different tricks to add a "much-needed" feminine touches in the interior.
So-called "mimishnye 'stuff, in the form of plush toys, pink blankets and pillows in the shape of hearts with the words" I love you ", it's not what a man wants to return home from work.
Most likely, the effect is the opposite to your expectations. Believe me, a man will scare a woman's desire "to occupy" his territory in this way.
4 Interrupt stag
Stag means that the party must be present only boys. That is, if your young man preparing to spend time with my friends, most of all, he does not want you to see what they are doing.
For most men, bachelor party consists of poker, beer, pizza, football, cigars and, of course, from a purely male conversations. Needless to say, women invade without an invitation is not recommended.
If you suddenly was coming to this temporarily restricted to the territory of the weaker sex, your young person may feel squeezed. So, you put it in an awkward position in front of his friends.
It may also accept such an invasion, as the lack of trust on your part.
5 You get to watch the tear melodrama
If you are enthusiastic about lacrimal melodramas and can ten times revise favorite scenes from "Intuition" and that such a "soap", this does not mean that your new boyfriend is a movie for everyone.
Do not make him sit with you in the evenings and, in tears, to empathize with the main characters of women's melodramas. Believe me, that will save them from being forced to voluntarily display your favorite movies, you'll earn yourself extra points.
6 Buy clothes for him, which is combined with your
For whatever reason, some girls feel the need to pick up a guy clothes, which will be combined with their dresses or sweaters, remains a mystery.
Therefore, if you belong to the category of women sincerely believe that matching outfits are cute, think again, there will please your boyfriend this idea.
7 Tears after physical intimacy
Yes, sometimes we tend to show their emotions. However, your bedroom is not the right place for this.
It is understood that during lovemaking, you have to be hot and passionate, and not whining and sobbing. Do not defeat the special atmosphere of the bedroom with tears of any kind.
8 "occupation" of his cabinet feminine intimate hygiene
The fact that you place your tampons and other personal care products in his locker, in fact, there is nothing criminal. However, before the wedding is better to refrain from such actions.
Best of all, if you're not married, put the intimate female things in her purse. The same prohibition applies to the toothbrush.
It is not necessary to keep it ahead of time, along with his toothbrush in the bathroom. Such actions can be interpreted them as the beginning of the control of its territory. And it can scare a man who, as a rule, very much values his freedom.
9 ultimatums in the early stages
Ultimatums at an early stage of relations - not exactly a good idea. Still very early to talk about a joint future together. Allow it to breathe freely.
No need to get the one that constantly makes demands and sets its own terms. Phrases such as "I will not sleep with you, if you can not say that I'm the only" or "if you do not do this, I will not do it", it is necessary to withdraw from everyday use.
Pushing her new boyfriend ultimatums at an early stage of relations, you can alienate him from me.
Relationships: Women's mistakes
10 calls his mom
Even if you're really close with her boyfriend, and ready for the next step in a relationship, without his consent, some things still do not recommended.
Ringing without the knowledge of your guy his mom, if not necessary, is unacceptable. Besides the fact that you lose his confidence, he may think that you are crazy.
Give up the idea of doing everything behind his young man, and even more so when it comes to communicating with his family. Not only what the man might like.
11 Family Therapy
Family therapy can be very useful and have a positive effect on the later stages of relationships. But if your relationship just something some day a couple of months, and you have to resort to the help of family psychologist, this is a serious reason to think.
If from the very beginning that something goes wrong, most likely, it makes sense to end this relationship and move on.
The three main words
12 The word "LOVE"
The word "love" is not what is easy and just costs raskidyvatsya at the initial stage of your relationship. Depreciation of its value can move both on two giant steps back.
The three main words "I love you" should sound when you realize that your feelings are mutual. Give him the opportunity to say the first of these important words. So it will be safer for you.
The diminutive 13 - affectionate nickname
To avoid awkward moments in a relationship do not rush to give your guy a diminutive nickname.
Even if your young person against such nicknames, be careful where and when to use them, so for others it did not look ridiculous and absurd. "Bunny" or "bear" it can only be alone with you.
Most likely, he will not be happy when his friends would jokingly call him this nickname.
14 Breaking his account on the social network
Trying to break the account is not a good idea, if you ever wanted to see your boyfriend.
It's pretty dishonest and cowardly way to control a young man. And believe me, as soon as the hype will reveal this kind of action to put you off from it by a great distance. And is not it, and you will find yourself in the role of the one who can not be trusted.
15 Constant calls him on his mobile
Please do not keep ringing her boyfriend every five minutes and do not leave annoying messages every time he can not answer your call. Perhaps just at this moment he is busy, and your endless calls will only exasperate him.
16 Talk to him about future children
Remember the scene from the movie "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days", when Andy brought his new album to the guy with the imaginary future children. Of course, the reaction of her young man was, to put it mildly, is not unambiguous.
If you're on the third week of relations vtoruyu- send new guy Pictures cradles and prams with the question "cute, which option is best suitable for our future baby?" Be prepared for the fact that such pressure might scare your lover.
17 Dress properly
Women's clothing for a home can be comfortable and beautiful at the same time. It is not necessary to scare the new guy faded T-shirts or pants with stretched knees. Try to look stunning, not only in the cinema, discotheques or at dinner in a restaurant, but also at home.
18 Discussion of your personal life with friends
Nobody forbids you to chat with friends, even when your life has a new man. However, be careful with the topics for discussion. Some things are best left just between the two of you.
Girlfriends do not necessarily know the details of your intimate personal life. Believe me, if it comes to a young man, he will not like what you are discussing the most delicate moments of your relationship.
19 Jealousy everything and everyone
Jealousy - a sign of true love. Maybe so, but only if this jealousy fair and adequate.
However, pathological jealousy is unhealthy is a likely disease. If you check it every evening mail, phone, and come to work for him to ascertain whether he's there, maybe you should see a doctor.
If you are jealous of the guy to his friends, mother, co-workers, it is worth considering whether to continue at such a pace. So you run the risk of losing a lover.
Believe me, girl -paranoik useless. Most likely, your boyfriend will frighten this obsession.
20 Eternal tantrums
This is perhaps one of the most important tips. It is not necessary to roll up his tantrums with or without. Not folded his socks, not hung to dry towel, you have not bought a handbag of your dream? It's not a reason to make his brain.
Believe me, your constant tantrums can tire anyone, and in the end, he will run away from you to that which will give him peace and comfort.
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